Sunday, March 1, 2026

Confession of a Repentant Sinner

Bishop Porphyry (Uspensky) of Chigirin (+1885)

 

 

In the next world each person will receive recompense for his deeds. This truth is proclaimed to me by the Gospel, accepted by my reason, and affirmed by my conscience.

The righteous God will justly condemn and punish me—justly. For He made me but little lower than the angels; yet I made myself like the senseless beasts. He gave me everything necessary for my enlightenment and sanctification: reason and conscience, law and grace, the Savior and the Church, spiritual guides and examples of holy life; but I despised all this, and, having loved sin, became lawless and dark like the fallen morning star. The Lord is righteous, and righteously will He condemn me; for in nothing have I been wronged by Him, yet I, ungrateful and audacious, have angered Him, the giver to me of life and of all good things.

When His dread and impartial judgment begins, then no one will entreat Him to have mercy on me—not the saints of God, nor the holy angels, nor the zealous Intercessor—because there will be nothing for which to show me mercy, since I am incapable of living in paradise with the saints and capable of sinning eternally even in hell itself. And the righteous Judge is no longer inclined to forgive when it is time to condemn.

But in this world, while God still endures our sins, and while He, like a father, is ready to forgive and receive every prodigal son, it is still possible for me now to avert His future condemnation and to prepare for eternal salvation. In my eyes not all tears have yet been exhausted; in my soul the light of reason has not yet been extinguished; my conscience has not yet completely fallen silent; and the law of God instructs, the Church forgives, Jesus saves, grace strengthens; the saints shine like guiding stars; the path to salvation has been shown—this is the path of repentance and good works.

It is time for me to enter upon this path; it is time. Life is short. Death stands behind my shoulders. The soul is burdened by sins. Relief is possible. Its beginning is confession.

Therefore, I make confession. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner, and receive my heartfelt repentance for my grievous sins.

1. Our salvation begins with renunciation of this sinful and adulterous world, or with contempt for everything that worldly people love and praise, and with indifference toward earthly and perishable goods, which are worth nothing in comparison with the heavenly and eternal blessings. — But I am wholly devoted to this world, and I love money, luxury, honors, glory, fine clothing, amusements, dances, and especially living pictures, although I know from experience that after them, as after festive fireworks, nothing remains except stench and darkness. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; weaken and cool within me the love for this world, and—whether I will it or not—lead me on the path of salvation.

2. Indifference to this sinful and adulterous world is the turning of the soul toward spiritual perfection, and the first step toward it is true and tearful repentance. It is the strict condemnation of oneself before the face of God, tearful contrition for sins, and unceasing attention to the work of the soul’s salvation. One who truly repents confesses his transgressions, bewails his errors, and, despite his daily sins, does not fall into despondency nor abandon piety, but practices it vigilantly; and, watching over himself, he replaces his offenses with deeds completely opposed to them. — But I sometimes condemn myself strictly, yet most often excuse my sins; sometimes I am contrite for them, yet from my eyes does not fall that holy water which washes away the impurities of the soul; sometimes I strive to be reconciled with God and with my conscience, yet I do not perform good deeds opposed to evil. Have I grown slothful? I do not double my labors. Have I indulged my belly? I do not fast. Have I angered or offended anyone? I do not immediately ask forgiveness. Have I been stingy? I do not become generous. Have I grown proud? I do not humble myself. In a word: in darkness I do not kindle the light. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner, and grant me the gift of true repentance.

3. He who begins to save his soul, amid all his occupations, remembers that the omnipresent and omniscient God sees him through and through; and this remembrance restrains him from inclinations toward falsehood, injustice, offense, deceit, and other sins, and strengthens his zeal for every good work. — But whatever I do, I do not with thought of the all-knowing God, but of human opinion about me and of my own advantage. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; remember not my forgetfulness of Thy holy and saving name, and speak to my soul Thy word spoken to Abraham: “I am the Lord Almighty; walk before Me and be blameless” (Gen. 17:1).

4. He who begins to save his soul daily reminds himself of the hour of death and of the dread judgment, not fearing death, which is replaced by resurrection; and this remembrance restrains within him the impulses of evil passions and warns him against mortal sins, [1] according to the assurance of the word of God: “remember thy last end, and thou shalt never sin” (Eccl. 8). — But if I think of death at all, I fear to die; and this fear proves that my soul has not been washed by the tears of repentance and does not possess that love for God which gave wings to the martyrs on their path to the heavenly kingdom. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; do not impute to me my fear of death, when I know that Thou art the God of the living and not of the dead; help me by Thy grace to overcome it, and grant me at least a drop of that love with which the holy martyrs loved Thee.

5. He who saves his soul lives temperately and restrains his body by the appointed fasts, as a faithful son of the holy, catholic, and apostolic Church. — But I live without restraint, am at times intemperate, and do not observe the fasts, like one separated from my brethren and sisters in the Lord; and even if I fast, I merely change my food, yet do not restrain my passions, do not refrain from idle talk, do not reconcile myself with my neighbors, and do not nourish myself with holy thoughts. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner and disobedient to Thy holy Church; instruct me to fast with a fast acceptable and pleasing to the Lord.

6. It is salutary for the soul to avoid association with free-thinking and immoral people. — But I associate with them, and at times am carried away by their teachings and examples. O Lord, I condemn before Thee this my inclination, and I ask Thee to deliver me from every evil person.

7. It is salutary for the soul to read the Gospel and the Apostolic Epistles in simplicity of heart. — But I do not read them, loving instead such books as nourish my impure imagination and my soul-destroying passions. O Lord, direct my steps according to Thy word, and let no iniquity have dominion over me.

8. It is salutary to pray in the temple of God with the common prayer, which raises the soul to God as a wave lifts a ship toward the heavens. — But I am lazy in going to church, and when I am there, I forget where I stand, engage in idle talk, wander in thought, gaze at living pictures; and if I make the sign of the cross and pray, I do so by habit, coldly, without the soaring of the soul toward God, without the burning of the heart; nor have I learned to pray with the common, unanimous prayer. The Little Entrance with the Gospel is performed; I ought to say within myself: Save us, O Son of God—but I say nothing. The Cherubic Hymn is sung; I ought to pray: Have mercy on me, O God, according to Thy great mercy… cleanse my iniquity… against Thee only have I sinned… (and so forth); yet I do not even know this penitential psalm by heart. The Great Entrance with the Gifts is performed; I ought prayerfully to say: Remember us, O Lord, when Thou comest in Thy kingdom; yet at that moment I think neither of the Lord nor of His future kingdom. I hear the exclamation: Let us give thanks unto the Lord—and I do not thank Him for all His benefactions. I hear the triumphal hymn: Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord of Sabaoth—and I do not pray to Him: Sanctify me, O Lord, and help me to sanctify Thy name by good works. At the most sacred moments of the divine service, when they sing: We hymn Thee; and when the Holy Spirit is invoked upon us and upon the Gifts set forth, I do not cry to God in the secret of my soul: Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me; cast me not away from Thy presence, and take not Thy Holy Spirit from me. And at those moments when they sing: It is truly meet; and when supplication is offered to God for the repose of the departed and for the salvation of all the living, I do not remember my parents who departed in the faith, nor do I pray for anyone. To me and to all is proclaimed: With the fear of God and with faith draw near; yet I do not respond: I believe, O Lord, and I confess that Thou art truly the Christ, the Son of the living God, who camest into the world to save sinners, of whom I am first. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; forgive me the sin of my ignorance, and teach me to worship Thee in spirit and in truth together with my believing brethren.

9. A righteous Christian does not take the name of God in vain, remembering the commandment of the Savior: let your word be: yes, yes; no, no (Matt. 5:37). — But I swear and take oaths, at times shamelessly, and I violate my oath. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, and write this commandment upon the tablets of my heart.

10. A righteous Christian does not lie. — But I lie very often, and by falsehood I sometimes conceal my offenses, sometimes avoid deserved reproach or punishment, sometimes give occasion to others for mockery and condemnation of those about whom I speak falsely or with exaggeration, and sometimes weave snares for my neighbors. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; remember not my lies, neither the frivolous nor the harmful, and fill my heart with Thy fear and with love for righteousness and truth.

11. A righteous Christian is simple of heart and straightforward. Simplicity of heart, or straightforwardness, is the habit of speaking and acting sincerely, without any pretense or deceit, without pleasing men or flattery, without evil or crafty intent. — But I do not possess such a habit; on the contrary, I speak not what I feel, lavish false assurances, deceive, act with pretense, hypocrisy, cunning, and guile; I flatter, serve not the cause but persons, appear gentle and kind, yet in my soul conceal harmful intent; I praise someone in order to distance him from myself and hand him over to others; I express myself about someone ambiguously or by hints, so as cleverly to cast him down and myself take his place. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner. I condemn before Thee my lack of straightforwardness, hypocrisy, guile, deceit, the kiss of Judas, and I beseech Thee: cleanse me from this defilement and make me as an infant toward evil.

12. A righteous Christian remembers that every person is the image and likeness of God, and according to the commandment of the Lord dishonors no one with abusive names (Matt. 5:22). — But I, especially in anger, pour out upon the image and likeness of God all the impure and even shameful dregs of human speech. O God, forgive me, a sinner, who has defiled Thy holy gift—the gift of speech—and has reviled Thy image and Thy likeness with names forbidden by Thy law.

13. A righteous Christian does not judge his neighbors, according to the commandment of the Lord: Judge not, that ye be not judged (Matt. 7:1); and when he must speak of them, he reproves the vice or the sin, but not the sinner. — But I attribute vices to others without being certain whether they possess them; I condemn the weaknesses of others without regard to my own, and forget that the one whom I judge may already have corrected himself and been shown mercy by the Savior. The right to judge one who has sinned belongs to God alone. Yet I anticipate this right before Him, and thus act foolishly. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; forgive my evil speech which burdens my conscience, and bless me to love all people together with their shortcomings.

14. A righteous Christian is modest and meek. He is not puffed up by praise nor does he proclaim it, and he is not offended by humiliations; he rejoices quietly; he speaks without offending anyone’s hearing by harsh or shameful words; everywhere and with everyone he conducts himself decently, calming another’s anger either by silence or by gentleness. — But when I am praised, I recount to everyone the praise given to me, not forgetting to add that such and such a merit of mine was overlooked; and when others are preferred to me, I take offense, grieve, and shout. My merriment is noisy, my conversations mocking, scandalous, and often obscene; my conduct toward people is not always decorous; another’s anger I increase by my irritability, and at times end matters with blows. O Lord, forgive me all this frenzy of mine, and grant to me, Thy servant, modesty, meekness, and timely silence.

15. A righteous Christian is obedient not only to authorities, but also to all wise and experienced people, and in conversations with them on whatever subject does not impose his own opinions upon them; he listens calmly to their objections and refutations; their well-grounded arguments he accepts willingly; otherwise he disputes meekly and peaceably, showing his desire to know the truth or what is right, and not his self-love, wit, cleverness, or breadth of knowledge. — But I consider myself wiser than all, cannot endure objections, and always wish to have things my own way with my characteristic stubbornness; when I am fully convinced of the rightness of a matter or of the soundness of my judgments, I continue the dispute with irritation, even with personal offense toward my interlocutor; yet from this I gain absolutely nothing, but only weary everyone and reveal my imagined superiority of mind, stubbornness, and pride. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; set a guard upon my lips, and grant to me, Thy servant, разумное obedience and humility of mind.

16. A righteous Christian observes moderation in all things. He is neither excessively indulgent nor overly strict, neither excessively affectionate nor long threatening. He is just without cruelty, renders to each his due, and conceals the superiority of his own person by humility and kindness, sparing the self-esteem of others. — But I am not such: either I overlook everything, or I exact punishment even for trifles; whom I treat kindly, I do so to the point of weariness or even harm by my attentions; and toward whom I am angry, I remain so not until the setting of the sun, according to the word of St. Paul, but for a long time, sometimes very long; my justice is harsh; I envy talents and belittle virtue; in everyone I love to discover a weak side and point it out to others, and by my supposed superiority I wound the soul of anyone unequal to me. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; forgive my deviations from the mean of prudence, justice, love, and propriety, and establish me in this moderation, that I may always remain consistent with myself, and that my conscience may not reproach me for acting prudently yet not justly, or justly yet cruelly or improperly.

A righteous Christian wrongs no one, but forgives the insults and offenses done to him, and is kindly disposed even toward those who have offended him, even in their presence. — But I offend and injure many; and when someone insults or wrongs me, I rage, threaten, and take revenge if I can; and if I cannot, then in society I pretend to be patient and magnanimous, yet at home I long and precisely remember the offensive word, the contemptuous smile, the ambiguous remark, the mockery, the ingratitude, and the like. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner. I condemn before Thee my rage, vindictiveness, my hypocritical magnanimity and real resentment, and I beseech Thee: by Thy grace imprint within me the image of the all-merciful Savior, who prayed even for His enemies, and grant to me, Thy servant, goodness and the sincere and magnanimous endurance of offenses.

18. A righteous Christian loves his enemies. — But I hate them and am inclined to harm them as I wish and as I am able. The leaven of malice is within me. O God, have mercy on me, a sinner, and help me by Thy grace to love my enemies. They are necessary for me. They help me to recognize the full strength of my innate malice and the great need for grace-given love, without which it is impossible to become like God, who makes His sun to shine upon the good and the evil.

19. The Gospel says to those who suffer: Rejoice and be glad, for great is your reward in heaven, and thereby teaches that it is best of all to suffer quietly before the face of the all-knowing God, who prepares a great reward for those who suffer, and not to complain against the causes of suffering. — But I complain of them to others, and seemingly wish thereby to lighten my sorrow, yet in reality I irritate myself still more, myself fall into sin, and lead my listeners into sin. For, by recounting my sufferings to them, I magnify them in my own eyes, grow self-indulgent, and feel more keenly the pain of my heart’s wounds; I justify myself as though I were guilty of nothing and lay my burden upon others; and the sympathy awakened in those who listen often turns into gossip and accusation against the opposing side. How many evil aspects there are here! All this proves that one ought not to seek consolation in such a way. One must know how even to complain rightly. But I do not possess such knowledge. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, and bless me to suffer quietly and to pray with the prayer of my Savior: if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, if it cannot be, let the will of God be done.

20. According to the word of the Gospel, blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God. — But I, wretched one, myself quarrel with many and set others at variance—husband with wife, brother with sister, friend with friend, superior with subordinate. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, and tame my harsh and evil disposition.

21. A righteous Christian loves all who are dear to his heart—his relatives, friends, and acquaintances—he loves them in God; he loves in them the image and likeness of God and that grace of the Lord which is given to them according to the measure of their faith; he loves them with their shortcomings for the sake of certain of their virtues, and therefore his love for them, though not ardent, is nevertheless constant and unchanging. — But my love toward all is impulsive and fervent, yet not lasting, because it is an extended love for myself; because in others I love myself and my own advantage; and as soon as I notice that they are not as I am, or do not fully sympathize with me, or are mistaken about me, or are strict, or not very just toward me, or when nothing is to be expected from them, I first grow cold toward them, then withdraw from them, and finally either cease altogether to love people and delight only in myself, or seek among them those who would highly value my merits. O God, merciful toward all who love Thee and who love Thee not, forgive the inconstancy of my love; instruct and bless me to love all for Thy sake, their Creator and Savior, and for the sake of their good qualities; weaken my self-love, which seeks admirers and worshipers for myself and is never satisfied with any incense, lest I come to that extreme where one ceases altogether to love his neighbor and concerns himself only with himself. I fear this extreme. Strengthen within me this fear.

22. A righteous Christian does not profit from another’s property and does not envy it; he is compassionate toward the unfortunate, merciful to the poor, and kind toward those who surround him. His relatives and worthy friends he loves sincerely and defends firmly, and he rewards their services generously. Neither self-love, nor vanity, nor expectation of reward corrupts the purity of his goodness and mercy, because he performs all good deeds in the name of God, who is love. But I, if I do not steal another’s property, have nevertheless acquired (have acquired) possessions unjustly, or envy the prosperity of my neighbors. — I am rich, yet miserly: I pity the unfortunate, but do not help them, or give very little, and live for my own pleasure. — I give alms to the poor, but only accidentally; I have no fixed yearly portion for them from my property or from my indulgences. Those who surround me and have devoted to me their youth and their strength with complete loyalty I do not reward as I ought, although I am able to do so. I defend worthy friends and intercede for them, but weakly—now fearing failure, now sparing my self-love, now avoiding trouble out of love for my own comfort. It happens that I shower benefactions upon strangers, while to my own relatives, even the closest, I give little. It also happens that into all my works of mercy there is mixed today laziness, tomorrow irritability and indignation toward the poor, often vanity, and sometimes an impure favor, by which more is given to a pleasing face and less to one that is not attractive. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, who possesses neither pure nor strong goodness of heart, and by Thy grace cleanse and strengthen it.

23. A righteous husband loves his wife as Christ loved the Church; he prays for her, honors her as a gift of God and as a God-like co-heir of eternal life; he is not unfaithful to her; he conducts himself toward her decently and with restraint, permitting himself nothing contrary to feminine modesty and to beginning motherhood; he is careful not to grieve her, conceals her shortcomings from others, and corrects them gently; he regards her as his helper and seeks her counsel and agreement in family matters; wise counsel he accepts, and unfounded counsel he declines, pointing out to her those aspects of the matter which she does not see, yet doing so without offending her. As the head of the whole household, he cares for its present and future well-being and keeps his home as a church, in which all glorify the heavenly Father through piety and good works. Such is a righteous husband. But I, a sinner, although I know that such I ought to be, do not fulfill my duty. My love for my wife is not sanctified either by fervent prayer for her or by regarding her as the image and likeness of God, as a gift of the heavenly Father, as a co-heir of eternal life with Christ; and therefore I sometimes am unfaithful to her… (indulge her distractions…), sometimes weary her by my lack of restraint, harmful to blessed childbearing, permit myself various shameless and disorderly acts, and most often grieve her… (torment her by suspicion, jealousy, stinginess, pride, irritability, even blows…), and disclose her shortcomings, whereas I ought to cover them with love and correct them gradually and patiently. My wife is more a servant than a helper to me. She counsels me in all that is good and beneficial, yet I do not listen to her and even insult her with abusive names. It also happens that even her prudent silence enrages me. And my gravest sin is negligence toward my household, toward the upbringing of my children in the fear of God, toward the pious ordering of my entire family, and the squandering of property elsewhere. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; forgive my transgressions and heal my soul.

24. A righteous wife constantly loves her husband; respects and honors him as the image and gift of God; prays for him; submits to him as to the head, because God has commanded her such submission; pleases him in everything in which it is possible and proper; fears to cool his love; preserves marital fidelity to him; never leaves him without special necessity; bears his irritability, stubbornness, and every other shortcoming patiently, and little by little overcomes them by her own yieldingness and meekness, and at a fitting time by gentle counsels and requests, sometimes by silence, sometimes by tears; she captivates his mind and heart by the beauty of a God-pleasing life. She firmly remembers that her best adornment consists in piety, good works, and well-brought-up children, and not in braided hair, nor gold, nor precious stones, nor costly garments; yet she does not reject such outward adornment when there is prosperity, and when it is necessary to improve circumstances, [2] she readily renounces it. She is pleasing to God, a helper to her husband, a second grace to her children, and for all the household an example of order, purity, and good conduct. It is a joy for her to fulfill the commandment which enjoins the good governance of the household. [3] Such is a righteous wife. But I am inconstant—today tender, tomorrow cold toward my husband, and at times I even doubt whether I truly love him as I ought. It happens that I do not submit to him nor please him, although I am able. I often grieve him by my irritability, quarrelsomeness, stubbornness, and sometimes by my gossip. I possess little patience. My marital fidelity is not without temptations. I do not live in a God-pleasing manner, and therefore lack the strength to correct my husband’s weaknesses. The passion for adornment is my most dangerous enemy. Fashions never leave my mind, while I think but little of adorning myself with virtues. I do not please God. I love to prevail over my husband and do much according to my own will, although I see that through my self-love and dominance the peace of our family is disturbed. I love my children, yet do not serve as an example of piety to them, and for this God, their Creator, will require an account from me. Not all in the household are satisfied with me. I am burdened by household management (and do not attend to it). In all things I am sinful. I repent. O Lord, receive my repentance and heal my soul.

25. A youth brought up in the Christian law is filled with the fear of God, which restrains all his self-will; he is obedient to parents, instructors, and superiors, respectful toward elders, compassionate, modest, bashful, and chaste. — But I am not God-fearing, and therefore self-willed, disobedient, mocking, insolent, cruel, malicious, shameless, and not pure. I repent. O Lord, receive my repentance and heal my soul.

26. A maiden brought up in the Christian law knows and often reminds herself that she belongs, as to no one else, to the Lord alone, and therefore must be holy in body and soul. She preserves her virginity as a fragrance placed in a fragile vessel, and therefore avoids all places and occasions where she may be in danger; she restrains herself even from excessive laughter, anger, and irritability, lest her blood be stirred, and occupies herself with handiwork so that daydreaming may not take possession of her. Her soul is so guarded and cautious that neither a sharp nor tender word, nor an affectionate or stern glance, nor a smile or anger, nor cordial greeting or gentle farewell gives men occasion either to seduce her or to grow familiar with her. Unaccustomed to free insinuations and vulgar conversations, she speaks modestly and chastely, and compels all to respect her for that purity of speech in which the innocence of her soul shines forth. A Christian maiden meets and honors every person as the image and likeness of God; she loves intellect, talents, merits, and virtues, and not handsome dolls. Does she form friendships? She forms them so that her friendship may endure even in heaven. Does she appear in society? She appears in order to bring chastity to it by her presence. Spiritual communion with wise people is pleasing to her, for she knows that from them she will acquire clarified faith, useful knowledge, and proper speech. Her distinguishing qualities, besides chastity, are humility, meekness, modesty, bashfulness, obedience, compassion, and prayerful concentration in God. Such is a Christian maiden. But I am proud, irritable, talkative, mocking, stubborn, malicious, lazy, dreamy, and so careless that I myself give men occasion to behave toward me with freedom. Their outward brilliance pleases me more than inner virtues. Of friendship it is said that it is half of love, and the purest half; yet of my friendships with certain persons I cannot say that they are without sin. My appearance with maidens like myself at so-called balls more often inflames young men than promotes chastity in them. In the presence of spiritual and wise men I am composed and attentive to them, but without them I am mere frivolity itself. I condemn this duplicity of mine. I confess also that I am lazy in praying to God. I am sinful. I repent of everything. O Lord, receive my repentance and heal my soul.

27. My spiritual father! I am young, yet already I sin: I do not imitate my Savior. He, as it is said in the Gospel, [4] grew and was strengthened in spirit, being filled with wisdom; but I am lazy in learning. He was obedient to His father and mother; [5] but I sometimes do not obey them. All loved Him; [6] but not all love me—and I myself am to blame for this: I lie, swear, am stubborn, do not wish to ask forgiveness, mimic others, behave mischievously, quarrel, take certain things without permission and conceal them, envy, imitate what is bad, sometimes do not reveal the truth to my parents and instructors, and make the sign of the cross and pray carelessly. I confess all these my sins. I repent of them and desire to be wise and good. Lord, receive this my repentance and desire; enlighten and save me.

28. Righteous masters remember that those of their household are people created in the image of God, that they are their brothers and sisters in Christ, and that God will require from them an account for them; [7] remembering this, they are meek, merciful, and compassionate toward them, spare their strength, provide for them, correct them, give gifts, and offer them assistance (if they are able), so that not only in old age but also upon a change of service they may not suffer want in the basic necessities of life until they find new employment. — But I sometimes treat them harshly, do not care for them, and if I do not cheat them, then after settling accounts according to agreement, I do not provide them assistance, although I am able to do so.

29. Righteous servants remember that the Lord Jesus Christ Himself served others, [8] and that for their labors they will receive recompense from Him when they fulfill their duties faithfully and diligently; remembering this, they serve their masters as though serving Christ Himself, to whom they must render account in all things; [9] they carry out all commands respectfully, conscientiously, and accurately, and labor with diligence, guarding their masters’ property as their own, and not permitting themselves to disclose their weaknesses, much less to slander them. — But I serve without much diligence (carelessly); I do not spare my master’s possessions and damage them through negligence; I myself deceive and steal from my masters, and even conceal from them the theft and deceit of other servants; and if I do not slander them, I nevertheless judge them and disclose their weaknesses, being myself sinful.

30. A perfect Christian is chaste. He knows that his body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and that his soul together with the spiritualized body is destined to live eternally among the angels; knowing this, he (apart from sanctified marriage joined with restraint) struggles against the lust of the flesh, asking from God the gift of purity, [10] not allowing freedom to imagination, memory, or sensual thoughts, not overindulging the belly, spending his days in labor, and at night signing himself with the cross and entrusting himself to his guardian angel; he struggles even unto old age and attains such perfection that he is no longer inflamed either bodily or mentally, beholds beauty dispassionately as a flower or a painting, and in the secret of his soul gives glory to God who created the comely creation. And when, through the weakness of human nature, he falls, he rises again; and when, like the harlot spoken of in the Gospel, he weeps over his fall, hastens to the Savior, and, casting himself into the abyss of His mercy, receives within himself with tears and sighs a drop of His most pure blood, then he becomes incomparably purer than one who has never defiled his virginity but has defiled his soul with sensual thoughts and has not cleansed it by tears of repentance. Such is a chaste Christian. But in me there is not even a shadow of such perfection. I am a slave to the flesh. I live voluptuously, and through fornication lose money, property, health, and honor, while acquiring diseases, premature old age, dullness of mind, emptiness of soul, and make myself fully worthy of the wrath of God and eternal torment as an unrepentant sinner. — And I, wretched one, already grown feeble, still sin by recalling my former acts of fornication and taking pleasure in such memories. — And though I have preserved virginity, yet in soul I am exceedingly impure through fantasies, thoughts, desires, and lustful cravings. O Lord, I dare not even raise my eyes to heaven, into which nothing unclean shall enter, but from the depth of my soul I beseech Thee: have mercy on me according to Thy great mercy, and according to the multitude of Thy compassions cleanse my iniquity; forgive my falls into sin, and grant to me, Thy servant, chastity.

31. A perfect Christian, besides chastity, possesses another greatest treasure—holy humility. It is the sense of our spiritual weakness and the awareness of our sinfulness, the ascription to God of all that is good within us and of all our good deeds, the remembrance of all His mercies shown to us, and submission to His wise and holy will. He who possesses this virtue judges no one, exalts himself above no one, does not pursue glory, and does not love to shine by intellect. He is gentle, modest, meek, peaceful, kind-hearted, and content, like a poor man receiving every gift; obedient, condescending, and benevolent. But I am proud and self-reliant; I boast of my knowledge, labors, and good deeds; I love praise alone, but cannot endure remarks and am offended by them; I rarely say: as God wills…, hope in God…, but almost always everyone hears from me: so I wish, so I command, this I will do for you; rely on me—as though I were God, and not a weak mortal, today strong, tomorrow insignificant, today living, tomorrow dead. And what are the offspring of my pride and self-reliance?—vanity, arrogance, anger, envy, evil speech, gossip, irritability, contentiousness, quarrels, offenses, discontent, hypocrisy, and worst of all, self-admiration for my conduct or for my supposedly blameless service. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, like a whitewashed tomb. I condemn before Thee my self-reliance and pride together with all their offspring, and I beseech Thee: uproot them from my heart and plant within me grace-filled humility.

32. A perfect Christian is filled with the fear of God. This fear, this sacred reverence of the soul which senses everywhere the presence of God, is astonished by His greatness, and struck by His holiness and righteousness, restrains such a Christian from transgressing the commandments, binding his passions and restraining his self-will. — But in me there is no fear of God, nor even concern or dread of trampling upon the law of God. I do what my passions, evil inclinations, and habits command me to do. Only particular chastisements and terrors of God—such as illnesses, deprivations, misfortunes, destructive epidemics, plagues, and wars—bring me to my senses and turn me toward God, yet only for a short time; when they pass, I again depart from God and live lawlessly, because there is no fear of God within my very soul. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner. I condemn before Thee my forgetfulness of Thy saving visitations, my self-will, and my lack of reverence before Thy majesty, and I beseech Thee: plant within me Thy fear.

33. In a perfect Christian there exists an unceasing zeal for the fulfillment of all the commandments of the Lord and a constant, most fervent thirst for justification by faith in the merits of the Savior, arising from the fact that, owing to circumstances or to the weakness of our nature, not all commandments are fulfilled, and even if all are fulfilled, they are not fulfilled exactly nor always from pure motives. — But in me there acts an unceasing zeal for the violation of all the commandments of the Lord; and if I thirst for that justification, it is only when I prepare for confession, and only in those days, while during all the rest of the time I sin and only sin.

O God, be merciful to me, a sinner; receive even my momentary repentance; help me to begin my salvation by the fulfillment of at least three, or two, or even one of Thy commandments, and strengthen my faith in my Savior; let at least this alone remain within me as a shoot of Christian life, capable in time of bearing its fruit.

34. In a perfect Christian there exists an inner light which illumines all the hidden turns of his heart and helps him to recognize the state of his soul for its greater perfection. This is spiritual discernment, which examines the lawfulness and purity of thoughts, desires, inclinations, and actions, and gives proper direction to Christian life. By the help of this light the Christian sees and knows whether the sensual is mingled within him with the spiritual or not—for example: whether impure attachment is mixed with mercy or friendship; with hospitality, a personal desire for amusement; with prudence, cunning; with justice, cruelty or impropriety; with meekness, unwillingness to serve one’s neighbor; with hope, laziness; with chastity, self-admiration or irritability; with magnanimity, pride; and with all deeds, vanity. Knowing this, he strives, as far as possible, to separate the sensual from the spiritual, so that the soul may be more luminous and pure. Examining himself, he knows what most strongly impels him toward a righteous life—whether fear of eternal torment, hope of eternal blessedness, or pure love for God and for goodness; knowing this, and possessing one or another or the third as his anchor, he crosses the sea of life, entrusting his vessel to the providence of God. Examining himself, he knows whence temptations arise for him like storms—whether from lust of the flesh, from love of money, or from ambition—and beforehand sets his sails and directs his vessel so as not to be submerged in the abyss of sin. When, in the light of inner discernment, it becomes evident that his temperance, meekness, obedience, modesty, mercy, and heartfelt compunction are qualities natural to him and not acquired in the soul by effort of mind and will, then he humbly acknowledges that had God not created him such, he would not be saved; and, giving thanks to the Most High for such undeserved mercy, he preserves what has been given to him freely and fulfills his task within the sphere in which the will of God has placed him.

But when it is found that victory over evil inclinations and passions has been acquired after a long struggle with them, after many falls and risings again, acquired by the efforts of mind and will under the shelter of faith, and that a strict life began after this victory; then the perfect Christian keeps vigilant watch over himself and advances along the path of faith and good works, fearing lest, after so many efforts, he turn back and remain only with the memory of his former struggle and of his past triumph. Such inner experience makes him very indulgent toward weaker souls, whose entire wealth consists in faith alone in the merits of the Savior. This attentiveness to himself, this self-knowledge or self-examination, reveals to him the state of his soul. But I, alas, am not attentive to myself. My only treasure, an eternal treasure, is my soul; yet it is precisely for it that I care the least. I do not even know its condition. I do not know that if I am lazy toward every good work, this, as the Saints say, proceeds from the absence of the fear of God in the soul and from our excessive indulgence toward ourselves in everything. I do not know that the hardening of my heart and my rootedness in habits of evil deeds began, as the Saints say, from indifference toward everything divine, beautiful, and exalted—toward faith and the Church. I do not know that my irritability and stubbornness draw their strength, as the Saints say, from excessive self-love. I do not enter deeply into myself and do not render to myself a daily account of my thoughts, desires, and actions.

If I better understood that deprivations, sorrows, and failures are more beneficial for my soul than constant prosperity, I would never murmur against God, who leads me along a thorny path, doubtless because in prosperity I would have become far worse than I am now. If I better knew all the impurity of my soul, I would not boast of my blameless service. But I do not know myself. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner. I condemn before Thee my negligence in examining myself, and I beseech Thee: help me by Thy grace to discern within me the admixture of the sensual with the spiritual, to distinguish the motives of my actions, to foresee temptations and avoid them in due time, to preserve my better natural qualities, to uproot my evil inclinations and habits, and to advance in spiritual perfection.

35. In the perfect Christian, prayer is a sweet union with God, an expression of love for Him and hope in Him, consolation in sorrows, the meeting of human weakness with the grace of the Holy Spirit, the cry of the soul to all its powers: Come, let us worship our King and our God. In prayer he magnifies God, thanks Him for all mercies, entrusts to Him himself and all that surrounds him, expresses sorrow for his sins and for his inclinations toward evil, and in the name of the Savior asks from Him forgiveness of sins, all that is good and beneficial for the soul, enlightening and sanctifying grace, and for the world—peace and unity of faith. He prays with faith and hope. In moments of prayer his heart burns. And when in this burning he raises to God only seven petitions: Hallowed be Thy name… Thy kingdom come… Thy will be done… Give us this day our daily bread… Forgive us our debts… Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, then even these few but fervent petitions are more pure than a multitude of words spoken coldly, without participation of the heart. If he offers to God three supplications with tears or with contrition of heart: Cast me not away from Thy presence and take not Thy Holy Spirit from me… Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me… Restore unto me the joy of Thy salvation and uphold me with Thy governing Spirit, then such three prayers are more effective than many prayer-readings performed without compunction. If he says even two words—Lord, have mercy—several times with faith, love, hope, and compunction, then even thus he ascends, as by steps, to where human weakness meets the grace of God. If during prayer uninvited thoughts, unexpected memories, or sudden imaginings arise in his soul, he is not disturbed by them but prays more firmly, knowing that only angels are capable of contemplation of God without distraction. If during prayer some feeling is kindled within him—repentance, thanksgiving, or surrender to the will of God—he retains this warmth within himself, repeating the same prayer, and afterward begins, for example, to ask some mercy of God; for such fervor of feeling is a sign by which he judges that at such moments his guardian angel prays together with him. If he complains to God when he knows that his conscience is clean in that matter, he complains not with boldness but with deep humility, asking mercy both for himself and for those who offended him. If he asks some mercy for himself or for others and God does not fulfill his request, he does not murmur nor lose hope, knowing that his prayer was not heard either because it was untimely, or because he himself is impure, or others unworthy, or because its speedy fulfillment would have become an occasion for spiritual negligence either for himself or for the one for whom the prayer was offered. The prayer of a perfect Christian corresponds to the state of his soul. Has he sinned with his tongue? He prays fervently: Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth. Has he excused some weakness or fall of his own? He prays ardently: Incline not my heart to words of wickedness, to devise excuses for sins—that is, to justify sins. Has he been wronged? He says to God: Judge, O Lord, those who wrong me… forgive them, for they know not what they do. Does he undertake an important task? He asks God: Give me wisdom that sitteth by Thy throne. Thus prays the perfect Christian, and his prayer gives the best direction to his life. But I do not even possess a clear understanding of such prayer. I make prostrations, read various prayers and many psalms, yet as for the dead—without burning of heart, coldly, by habit—and therefore I am not corrected. Sudden memories or imaginings arising during prayer I retain within myself, and having taken pleasure in them, cease to pray. All my prayerful feelings and petitions are fleeting, like clouds without water. I repent before God of my sins, yet not a single tear falls from my eyes. I complain to Him of someone, yet do not wish to forgive the offender nor ask mercy for him. I await the mercy I have asked from God, and not receiving it, I murmur like an ignorant child who does not understand the reason for a father’s or mother’s refusal. Not knowing myself well, I do not know how to pray for myself: proud, I do not ask God to humble my soul; lazy toward every good work, I do not beg for the fear of God; sensual, I do not hasten toward the Savior; luxurious, I do not ask for spiritual riches; darkened, I do not seek wisdom; harsh and irritable, I do not implore heartfelt goodness. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner, and teach me to worship Thee in spirit and in truth. And I, wretched one, rarely pray to God—unless thunder strikes over me, illness lays me upon a bed, or hardship presses upon me. — And I, as though not even a Christian, never pray to God. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, and bless me to begin praying even with the Our Father, even with Lord, have mercy.

36. A perfect Christian believes and confesses that the Triune God created all things visible and invisible and governs all according to natural and moral laws; that Jesus Christ, the Son of the living God, is the Savior of all people and the model of holy life; and that the Holy Spirit is the distributor of spiritual gifts to each according to the measure of his faith; he believes and confesses as the one, holy, catholic, and apostolic Church teaches. But his faith is a living power which produces in him reverence and humility before the greatness of God, submission to His will, hope in His wisdom and goodness, thanksgiving for all His mercies, union with Christ, imitation of His holy life, and a thirst for the gifts of the Holy Spirit. But in me this faith is nothing more than an indistinct outline of a magnificent picture, without colors, without expression, so that if some non-believer or one weak in faith were to look into my soul and compare my faith with my life, he would love neither me nor the doctrine which I profess. It happens that I am ashamed to confess my faith before the sons of this age, and even assume the mask of an unbeliever so that they may say of me: he is intelligent. Such man-pleasing, such hypocrisy, cowardice, and trampling upon what is holy are loathsome even to myself. It also happens that I doubt the dogmas of the Christian faith merely because I do not comprehend them with my mind, as though God ought not to do what I cannot understand. Most often it happens that I do not think at all about the holy truths of faith, because I live carelessly and do not in the least concern myself with the salvation of my soul. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner, and add unto me that faith which perfect Christians possess, and which alone will justify me before God by giving better direction to my life.

37. A perfect Christian, believing in God almighty, omniscient, most wise, just, merciful, eternal, and the giver of immortality to souls, constantly hopes in Him. His hope is the rational expectation of God’s help, righteousness, and mercy in all circumstances of temporal life, and the living anticipation of eternal blessedness. Possessing within himself this spiritual power, the Christian conducts all his affairs as best he can, yet in such a way that he allows God to halt some of them, strengthen others, or change their course and direction, according to their connection with the affairs of other people and with the salvation of his own soul, for this connection is known to God alone. Having entrusted to Him himself, his powers, and his labors, he is no longer excessively troubled by doubts, fears, or anxieties concerning the success or failure of his undertakings; he does not go to fortune-tellers or soothsayers to ask what will happen and when; he does not arrange his actions according to omens, dreams, or divinations taken from the Gospel or Psalter; he does not make superstitious vows to God in order to obtain the mercy he seeks; but when he receives it according to faith and hope, he gives thanks to Him as he is able. In general, he performs every work reasonably, vigilantly, calmly, and moderately, preserving his own strength and the strength of those who labor with him, entrusting much to the providence of God. Is he poor? He continues to labor as long as he can, hoping that God and good people will not abandon him or those close to him in old age and weakness. Is he unjustly humiliated in public opinion? He grieves but does not despair, awaiting from God a change in his condition and especially comforting himself in the knowledge that human opinion means nothing when God sees his innocence or slight guilt. Is he distressed by the misconduct of those dearest to him? He treats them as the sick, entrusting their salvation to God and remembering the sure word of God: where sin increased, grace abounded all the more. Is he struck by illness or burdened by misfortunes? He endures like Job, uniting his sufferings with the sufferings of the Lord and awaiting the crown prepared for everyone who endures to the end. Is he called to difficult service in the state or in the Church? He accepts it, not placing his will above the commands of lawful authority and hoping for God’s help. Does he live in abundance, wealth, happiness, and security, prospering in all things? He thanks God, and, considering himself a stranger and pilgrim on earth, strives to acquire spiritual riches, that with them he may appear in the heavenly kingdom which he awaits according to the Lord’s promise. Such is the Christian who hopes in God. But although I also hope in Him, my hope is neither full, nor firm, nor pure, nor strong. I am excessively anxious, rely upon my own strength, think that I myself will succeed in everything and accomplish all as I plan and desire; therefore I possess neither peace of soul nor of body, am continually troubled by doubts, invent all manner of fears, and only torment and exhaust myself; and my affairs do not proceed as I wish or imagine. To this tormenting anxiety I add various divinations and beliefs in omens, dreams, and predictions of fortune-tellers and accomplices of demons who turn tables and write fantasies; thus I abase my reason, weaken my submission to the will of God, and become the plaything of foolish people and demons. Moreover, I sin by promising to set up a candle, make an offering to the church, or go on pilgrimage—not to fulfill the duty of a parishioner and Christian, but in order to obtain the mercy I desire from God; thus I compel God, as it were, to expect a gift from me—God who has no need of it—and if my superstitious hope is not fulfilled, I risk losing my trust in Him. I sin grievously by yielding to excessive despondency in my poverty, as though God did not care for the widow, the orphan, and the poor. I sin grievously by excessive sorrow in times of undeserved humiliation or the loss of someone dear to my heart, as though God were not able to justify the innocent, and as though what is lost were not in His keeping. I sin grievously by excessive grief over the corruption of souls close to me or by treating them harshly, as though I were their Savior or judge. I confess that I murmur upon the bed of sickness or under the burden of misfortunes and do not know how to unite my sufferings with the sufferings of the Cross of my Lord. I confess also that through cowardice I refuse (have refused) the service appointed to me, as though God helps everyone except me. — And I, possessing every good thing, eat, drink, and make merry, thinking neither of the hour of death nor of hell and heaven, postponing repentance until old age in hope of the mercy of the Lord who saved the thief upon the cross, as though the salvation granted to him in a single moment—and to him alone, and upon the cross—might also be granted to me and to others who have spent life in sin and pleasure, and as though I knew that death would wait for my old age. O Lord my God! I condemn before Thee all these my sins—self-reliance, anxiety consuming body and soul, continual agitation from imagined dangers and fears, every superstition, despondency, grief, excessive sorrow, murmuring, cowardice, carelessness concerning my salvation, and the irrational postponement of repentance and amendment until old age—and I beseech Thee: have mercy on me, a sinner, and grant me that hope in Thee which perfect Christians possess.

38. A perfect Christian loves God with all his soul and with all his heart, as his Creator, Providence, Savior, Sanctifier, and Giver of immortality and eternally blessed life. His love for Him is a sacred zeal by which he contributes, as far as he is able, to the spread of the true faith where it has not yet been proclaimed or has not taken root; and not only this zeal, but also fervor for the fulfillment of all the commandments of the Lord, the transformation of the soul according to His image and likeness, the adoration of His perfections, and such union with Him that the soul lives, thinks, feels, acts, rests, and finds blessedness in Him alone. Such love I, a sinner, do not possess. To our laborers who in Siberia and the Caucasus baptize unbelievers into the Lord, I do not give even a single coin, as though the light of Christ were needed by me alone. I imagine that I love God, yet do not fulfill His commandments, while I satisfy every desire of a beloved person. I do not imitate Christ my Savior—meek, humble, merciful, righteous, forgiving His enemies, having no deceit in His mouth, most pure, long-suffering, laboring, obedient to the will of the heavenly Father, doing His will, praying, and suffering without murmuring. Throughout my whole life I live, think, feel, and act as though apart from God, not thinking of Him. O God, be merciful to me, a sinner. I condemn before Thee my indifference toward the spread of the true faith, my self-will, my failure to imitate my Savior, and my forgetfulness of Thee, the Giver of life, wisdom, virtue, and immortality; and I beseech Thee: kindle within me perfect love for Thee—that love which cries from the depths of the soul, Abba, Father!—that with Peter I may say to Thee: Yea, Lord, Thou knowest that I love Thee.

39. All Christian virtues, beginning from repentance to love for God, adorn the holy soul as the stars adorn the heavens. And its crown is inner peace. This is the harmony of all the powers of the soul—that is, imagination, memory, reason, will, and conscience—and its rest in God, arising from the living awareness of God’s favor toward it after it has become the image and likeness of Christ the Savior. Such peace or repose is acquired after long harmonizing of these powers, after the keeping of all the commandments and the fulfillment of all virtues. If reason predominates in the soul over heartfelt feeling, or imagination over reason—there will be no peace in it. If even one commandment be broken or one virtue excluded—there will be no peace in the soul. If it does not recognize within itself the change of God’s wrath into mercy toward it and does not feel God’s favor toward itself—it will not experience peace. This peace is the final gift of God to the holy soul. Few of God’s chosen ones have possessed it. How then shall I, a sinner, receive it, when in me reason and heart are not in harmony, when good deeds are either altogether absent or very few, and even those are mixed with self-love and vanity, while almost all the commandments have been transgressed by me? Would that the Lord might grant me at least to taste that peace of soul which comes immediately after confession and the remission of sins. Even this peace is a great good! I thirst for it, and from the depths of my soul I cry unto Thee, O God my Savior: be merciful to me, a sinner; receive my sincere repentance, forgive all my sins voluntary and involuntary, heal my ailing soul, and grant it at least a drop of grace-filled repose in Thee.

Amen.

 

NOTES

1. Mortal sins are: 1) spiritual pride, which rejects the grace and help of God and dreams of self-made perfection; 2) hatred joined with malice, which causes harm to the one whom one hates; 3) gluttony or overeating and drunkenness; 4) fornication; 5) murder; 6) carelessness concerning the salvation of the soul; 7) despair leading to suicide. These seven sins are forgiven only after repentance, prolonged penance, and amendment of life. Whoever dies in such a sin without repentance will be condemned to eternal torment.

2. 1 Tim. 2:9–10

3. 1 Tim. 5:14

4. Luke 2:40

5. Luke 2:51

6. Luke 2:52

7. Eph. 6:9; Col. 4:1

8. Matt. 20:28; Mark 10:45

9. Eph. 6:5 ff.; 1 Tim. 6:1–2; 1 Pet. 2:18–19

10. Wisdom 8

 

Russian source: Исповедь кающагося грешника, by Bishop Porphyry, 4th edition, Moscow: Printing House of I. Efimov, 1879.

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