The phenomenon of the difficulty of admitting one’s mistake

Ioannis N. Paparrigas | August 17, 2025

 

“You were completely born in sins, and are you teaching us?” (John 9:34)

 

The phenomenon of the difficulty that man faces in admitting his mistake constitutes an issue that has occupied philosophers, sociologists, and theologians for centuries. It is not simply a psychological or social phenomenon, but touches the depths of human nature, as it is related to the passion of pride and vainglory, and it has consequences in all areas of our life.

One of the main reasons why man finds it difficult to admit his fault is the attempt to protect his “ego” and his self-esteem. Pride, which is the root of many evils, hinders him, while vainglory drives him to maintain an unblemished image in the eyes of others, even if within himself he knows the truth.

Often, man fears the consequences that may arise if he admits his mistake, such as the loss of his dignity, the shaken trust of others, social rejection, or criticism. In order to avoid this trial, he prefers to justify himself with external circumstances or to shift the responsibility onto others, so as to maintain a positive image of himself in order to protect himself. Thus, instead of resting in the peace that humility grants, he resorts to excuses and accusations against his neighbor. In this way, both the opportunity for personal self-knowledge and reconciliation with one’s neighbor are lost.

The recognition of the mistake is not a sign of weakness, but a step of courage and spiritual maturity. Whoever has the courage to acknowledge it opens the way toward purification and true freedom. Humility does not diminish man; it elevates him, for “God gives grace to the humble,” while “He resists the proud” (James 4:6).

In every case, the recognition of the mistake is an important step for the acquisition of true wisdom, the improvement of the relationship with one’s neighbor, and the salvation of the soul. The man who learns to recognize them is freed from the bonds of pride and vainglory which human nature acquired through the fall, and passes over into the true life of humility, where the Grace of God dwells.

 

Greek source: https://entoytwnika1.blogspot.com/2025/08/blog-post_17.html